tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post115312176413973259..comments2024-03-02T03:29:09.759-05:00Comments on SerandEz and Friends: The Holy Hyrax SpeakethEzziehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12494592434522239195noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153576162782996612006-07-22T09:49:00.001-04:002006-07-22T09:49:00.001-04:00Nice colors. Keep up the good work. thnx!»Nice colors. 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Sue me. And anyways, Im not apologizing to you. Your just a settler :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153230803301201702006-07-18T09:53:00.000-04:002006-07-18T09:53:00.000-04:00Yo HH: Can I smack you a few times till you stop w...Yo HH: Can I smack you a few times till you stop whining? Stop apologizing already! Sheesh...it's embarrassing!<BR/><BR/>Listen - there's an expression used alot in the gemara "MiToch Shelo Lishma, Ba Lishma" -- if an action or thought is done enough...even if it didn't start witht he right intentions, it will end up BEING with the right intentions. Even if you CLAIM your entire feelings for EY and it's people are based on your own selfishness, in due time, it will be because of of unconditional love for EY the Jews who live there.<BR/><BR/>I'm happy you have these thoughts to begin with -- not everyone does.<BR/><BR/>So, on behalf of the People of Israel, I forgive you - and stop apologizing already!Jameel @ The Muqatahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15890095633246557332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153181613692853222006-07-17T20:13:00.000-04:002006-07-17T20:13:00.000-04:00Mitzvah I can hear and understand, but calling it ...<I>Mitzvah I can hear and understand, but calling it a chiyuv sounds a little more debatable. </I><BR/><BR/>I have only found two contemporary opinions that claim it is a kiyumit. Rav Moshe Feinstein is one. The other is the Tzitz Eliezer but he contradicts himself in other teshuvot. All in all, there is that tzad, but if you look into it, it is a very difficult position to justify in the Ramban (which even Rav Moshe agrees we pasken like). And even if it is a kiyumit, that is also nothing to sneeze at. The gemara says one gets punished for ignoring a mitzva kiyumit as well.chardalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11360421238816857677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153176596256599862006-07-17T18:49:00.000-04:002006-07-17T18:49:00.000-04:00"But it ALONE does not abrogate the chiuv."Chardal..."But it ALONE does not abrogate the chiuv."<BR/><BR/>Chardal, this is presuming it is a chiyuv. Mitzvah I can hear and understand, but calling it a chiyuv sounds a little more debatable.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153176486658584622006-07-17T18:48:00.000-04:002006-07-17T18:48:00.000-04:00"guilt, mourning...DO DOMETHING"eema,We ARE doing ..."guilt, mourning...DO DOMETHING"<BR/><BR/>eema,<BR/>We ARE doing something. Our conversation has nothing to do with whether to show our support or not...of course support is the answer. We are discussing the phenomenon of indifference and what it is rooted in...<BR/><BR/>Please review our comments a little more carefully.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153174873488390162006-07-17T18:21:00.000-04:002006-07-17T18:21:00.000-04:00guilt, mourning...DO DOMETHING. Even those of us w...guilt, mourning...DO DOMETHING. <BR/>Even those of us who are (lucky enough to be allowed to live here) in E"Y need to act.<BR/>We get on with our lives, but just because we are in the bomb shelters (or not), does not give us the right to not do teshuva, daven with all our heart, give tzedaka and act justly (no, I NOT referring to our actions on either of the 2 fronts.) It's something we all need to do, it's the only thing we can do that will unite us, strenghten us and keep us from more war!eema2fourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06861738182839889246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153170228046876712006-07-17T17:03:00.000-04:002006-07-17T17:03:00.000-04:00Kibbud av v'aim....does that count for anything? O...<I>Kibbud av v'aim....does that count for anything? </I><BR/><BR/>Of course it counts for something! It's a giant mitzva in the Torah. But it ALONE does not abrogate the chiuv. There are three basic categories of ptur from the mitzva: Torah, Chupa, and Parnassah.<BR/><BR/>If one needs to be in chu"l for his Torah learning, he can stay.<BR/><BR/>If he needs to be in chu"l to find a shiduch, he can stay.<BR/><BR/>If he can not make a parnassa in EY, he can stay in chu"l (this is the most widely applicable one today)<BR/><BR/>There are some other considerations but the overall approach needs to be "I have to live there but...." <BR/><BR/>Not<BR/><BR/>"I don't have to live there"chardalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11360421238816857677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153165743534815722006-07-17T15:49:00.000-04:002006-07-17T15:49:00.000-04:00Kibbud av v'aim....does that count for anything?Th...<I>Kibbud av v'aim....does that count for anything?</I><BR/><BR/>Thats actually a good question. I know part of the reason that I do not see myself moving is because I know me moving would make my parents miserable. They have enough worries as it is, and I know they love that we are near them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153165121063873172006-07-17T15:38:00.000-04:002006-07-17T15:38:00.000-04:00Kibbud av v'aim....does that count for anything?Kibbud av v'aim....does that count for anything?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153161474464172202006-07-17T14:37:00.000-04:002006-07-17T14:37:00.000-04:00I transgressed no moral,true ethical,truereligious...<I>I transgressed no <BR/><BR/>moral,</I><BR/><BR/>true<BR/><BR/><I> ethical,</I><BR/><BR/>true<BR/><BR/><I>religious</I><BR/><BR/>false<BR/><BR/><I>or halachic</I><BR/><BR/>don't know your situation but it might be false. There is a chiuv to live there although there are several exceptions to the rule. being close to family is not one of those exceptions.chardalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11360421238816857677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153161361160945842006-07-17T14:36:00.000-04:002006-07-17T14:36:00.000-04:00Your reasoning is predicated on this inaccurate as...<I>Your reasoning is predicated on this inaccurate assumption regarding people's attitude to Israel. Guilt might be an accurate expression if people feel bad for living in Chutz Laaretz and not Israel. </I><BR/><BR/>Let me reiterate, that I feel that alot of people DO feel guilty about living in Chul. Its something deep inside them that they feel. I can testify that though I love the United States and don't see myself making aliyah anytime soon at all, there is something inside of me that feels guilty for not being with my brothers and sisters in Israel. THAT is why I feel like can make that assumption.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153161198549356332006-07-17T14:33:00.000-04:002006-07-17T14:33:00.000-04:00JH, I don't think I am disagreeing with you. I did...JH, I don't think I am disagreeing with you. I did not say everyone is like that. I am saying that this subconscience feeling is probably more predominant than people want to admit.<BR/><BR/><I>Guilt might be an accurate expression if people feel bad for living in Chutz Laaretz and not Israel.</I><BR/><BR/>Nu, exactly. I think this expression of their guilt comes out during some sort of crisis, and they long for peace to ease any discomfort they might be feeling for living in Chul. Again, this is all something subconscience that people are either not even aware of or they are but just don't want to admit it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153160565414707862006-07-17T14:22:00.000-04:002006-07-17T14:22:00.000-04:00"selfish need to be at ease with one self that the..."selfish need to be at ease with one self that they chose to live in Chul."<BR/><BR/>Your reasoning is predicated on this inaccurate assumption regarding people's attitude to Israel. Guilt might be an accurate expression if people feel bad for living in Chutz Laaretz and not Israel. <BR/><BR/>However, as much as I identify with Israel (being Israeli myself) I do not feel the obligation to live there. I feel the DESIRE to live there, but I have no guilt for not living there. I transgressed no moral, ethical, religious or halachic lines by living in the United States. I deem my responsibility to my immediate family in a higher regard and do not want to abandon them to move with my wife and daughter to Israel. No guilt here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153159089157331012006-07-17T13:58:00.000-04:002006-07-17T13:58:00.000-04:00and maybe someday you will. Oh, he will. he will ...<I>and maybe someday you will. </I><BR/><BR/>Oh, he will. he will ;)<BR/><BR/>Nice image BTW.chardalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11360421238816857677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153157402836245232006-07-17T13:30:00.000-04:002006-07-17T13:30:00.000-04:00Guilt, can be for a number of reasons. I stand by ...Guilt, can be for a number of reasons. <B>I</B> stand by what I said. I think if alot of people were more self aware of their emotions, they would see their "support" of ANY crisis in Israel comes from, first, a selfish need to be at ease with one self that they chose to live in Chul. Again, I am not saying that they don't care for Israel or Jews. I am saying that there is something subconsciencly inside them that is making them go to rallies, protests, etc. to ease their guilty conscience that they are not in Israel. They need to do this so they can feel "complete and that they are part of something. Am I saying its not their responsiblity to help. NO. All I am saying is that something else initially drives that support.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153150282716278562006-07-17T11:31:00.000-04:002006-07-17T11:31:00.000-04:00Wow, thanks HH for clarifying your post. As for gu...Wow, thanks HH for clarifying your post. <BR/><BR/>As for guilt...I stand by what I say. If you are CONNECTED then its not guilt. It's mourning...a loss of what to do in a meaningful way because we are a people of ONE but ironically through exile living around the globe. <BR/><BR/>Guilt woud be appropriate if someone realizes that they should care more but do not because of general selfish indifference.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153148619855961282006-07-17T11:03:00.000-04:002006-07-17T11:03:00.000-04:00You, Hyrax, can rationalize for yourself. Please l...<I>You, Hyrax, can rationalize for yourself. Please leave me out of it.</I><BR/><BR/>I think you are right, I shoulden't make it seem as if everyone is like this and it certainly was not my intention. Perhaps I should edit the post a bit. (Hey I did post this at 3:00am)<BR/><BR/>I disagree with you on what you said here.<BR/><BR/><I>IF you are detached from Israel...<BR/>IF you do not see Israel as an extension of your own Jewish backyard...<BR/>IF you do not see Israel as the sole exit strategy out of thousands of years of exile...<BR/><BR/>ONLY THEN you can blame it on guilt.</I><BR/><BR/>I think its because you're NOT detached from Eretz Israel that these feelings of guilt come out.Holy Hyraxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17704030181702087485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153147465216025652006-07-17T10:44:00.000-04:002006-07-17T10:44:00.000-04:00westbankmama,I diasgree. Guilt is not the proper r...westbankmama,<BR/>I diasgree. Guilt is not the proper response. Its a cop-out. How about responsibility for the larger Jewish community.<BR/><BR/>We pray, give money and help because it is our responsibility. Period. End of story.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153147392699607982006-07-17T10:43:00.000-04:002006-07-17T10:43:00.000-04:00"Why are we really feeling bad for the situation i..."Why are we really feeling bad for the situation in Israel? What's behind it all? Do we truly care for all the citizens of that country? Do we want Peace? Why? What's behind all the tears and tfillot? I came to the conclusion that the reason is selfish guilt."<BR/><BR/>How presumptious of you! <BR/>IF you are detached from Israel...<BR/>IF you do not see Israel as an extension of your own Jewish backyard...<BR/>IF you do not see Israel as the sole exit strategy out of thousands of years of exile...<BR/><BR/>ONLY THEN you can blame it on guilt. <BR/><BR/>How dare you qualify our thoughts and actions abroad in one fell swoop on Jewish guilt. Of course, I can't speak for everyone either and I am sure there is a spectrum of connectedness that diaspora Jews feel, but I am readily acknowledging that. I would like to put more faith in people that when their shul says a prayer for Israel it's not done to lift a guilty concience.<BR/><BR/>You, Hyrax, can rationalize for yourself. Please leave me out of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13326001.post-1153126179114968422006-07-17T04:49:00.000-04:002006-07-17T04:49:00.000-04:00Holy Hyrax - the fact that you feel guilty says a ...Holy Hyrax - the fact that you feel guilty says a lot - that you still care. It does make a difference to me - living here in Israel. Of course, I wish you would move here also...and maybe someday you will.westbankmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07175250198028829889noreply@blogger.com